Trinity Rodman opens up about relationship with father Dennis: ‘He’s not a father. Maybe with blood, but nothing else’

KANSAS CITY, MISSOURI - NOVEMBER 2: Trinity Rodman #2 of the Washington Spirit looks on during the NWSL Championship game between the Orlando Pride and the Washington Spirit at CPKC Stadium on November 23, 2024 in Kansas City, Missouri. (Photo by Bill Barrett/ISI Photos/Getty Images)

Trinity Rodman has never credited her father, Dennis, for her soccer stardom. (Photo by Bill Barrett/ISI Photos/Getty Images)

When Trinity Rodman broke into NWSL stardom, the first thing many people learned about her was her status as the daughter of mercurial NBA Hall of Famer Dennis Rodman.

The child of a sports great becoming a star is not an unusual story in America. It usually features a naturally gifted child who is allowed to flourish from a young age, with parents providing support at every stage. What was always made clear about Trinity Rodman, however, was that Dennis had very little to do with her greatness.

In public, Trinity would credit mother Michelle Moyer as her role model. Dennis and Moyer divorced in 2012 when Trinity was approximately 10 years old. Trinity’s relationship with Dennis was always described as complicated at best, with the father enjoying a lifestyle hardly conducive to child-rearing and the daughter experiencing long stretches without speaking to her father.

Then Trinity went on the “Call Her Daddy” podcast and revealed her feelings about Dennis for the first time in an episode published on Wednesday. She recalled that her father refused to give her mother any money to help them and was extremely controlling when he would give them access to his money.

“My dad, he likes to be in control. So he’d take us shopping, get us phones, do this, do that. ‘Oh, I’m taking you and your brother shopping,’ and me and my brother is like, ‘We don’t want to go shopping, we just want money to go in and out after school with our friends.’

“So it was like he wasn’t going to give us money to do that. He was going to be in control of bringing us groceries and swiping his own card. But if we asked, ‘Hey, could we get $100 to get food , going to Claire’s to get my ears pierced, just stuff like, “No, you’re using me.”

Trinity described living with her mother in a Ford Expedition “for a bit” and giving up living with her father because of “partying 24/7” and him “bringing random bitches in.” She remembers going to events like his jersey retirement and his Hall of Fame induction, getting her hair and makeup done, all the while knowing the image he portrayed was far from the truth.

“He loves the spotlight. He loves the cameras. He loves bringing his kids on stage and being like, ‘Oh, those are my kids.'”

And then there was what happened when Dennis wanted to be known as Dad when he showed up to one of Trinity’s NWSL games unannounced in her first season in 2021. She saw and heard him in the crowd without seeing or hearing from him for months, and she started crying on the field.

“So I’m trying to play this football game and I’m crying… I’m crying. Nobody knows what the hell is going on… And I say, ‘You, my father is here.’

“I finish that half crying my eyes out in the locker room at halftime. And my coach said, ‘Do you want to play?’ And I was like, ‘Yeah, I want to win?’ And I’m like, ‘He’s not going to take me away from winning this either, f*** you!'”

Trinity set up the winning goal in the second half and didn’t know how she would feel or what was going to happen when the final whistle blew and she would have to interact with her father.

“The whistle blew and I was so mad, like, ‘You took this happy moment away from me. You messed with my head again.”

“And then I go over and again there are cameras everywhere… And all I did was cry.

“I go over there, he grabs my head and I just start howling in his arms like it’s a father-daughter thing…”

Trinity said the rest of their time together after the match was pretty “healthy” and Dennis told her he would see her soon. She felt good enough about their interaction to post about “a new beginning” for both of them on social media. That was in 2021. After that it was “radio silence”. He never reached out to her and she did not see him again for over two years, until late 2023.

It was after that incident with her father in her rookie year that Trinity says she “lost hope of ever getting him back.”

Trinity now stands as one of the brightest stars in soccer with an Olympic gold medal, an NWSL championship, a CONCACAF championship, two FIFA Best XI honors and an NWSL Rookie of the Year award at just 22 years old. She is the face of the Washington Spirit, a team that reached the NWSL finals this year and is expected by many to do the same in 2025, and part of a devastating attack for the USWNT featuring Mallory Swanson and Sophia Smith.

She is still working on her relationship with Dennis, but has a sharp outlook on it. She hasn’t saved his number because he keeps changing it and never tells her. She believes he is an alcoholic and hearing his voice when he calls is “painful” both because she misses him and hears how alcoholism has changed the way he speaks. In fact, Trinity says that every time they interact on the phone, “it’s f***ing me.” But she still takes his calls, even though they are rare.

“I’m picking up the phone now for my conscience, to say he needed to hear my voice before something happens. That’s why I’m picking up the phone, not for me.

“He’s not a father. Maybe by blood, but nothing else.”